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Why is the guy ignoring?

Everyone knows that certainty is considered the prerogative of men in relationships, while women must remain mysterious and unsaid. Unfortunately, nowadays more often the opposite happens: men behave completely illogically, avoid responsibility and exposure, which gives them a reason to just ignore the girl instead of just talking. In our article we describe why the guy ignores, and what to do to find ways out of this situation.

Reasons for ignoring a man

So here are some simple reasons why a guy ignores a girl:

  • shyness (the guy is naturally shy, and it is easier for him to ignore the girl than to talk to her);
  • offense (the guy was offended by the girl, and does not want the first to go to reconciliation);
  • the decision to part (the so-called "care in English", when a girl is not even told that she was parted, they are used by "pick-upers");
  • a strong quarrel (it is likely that the guy was very angry, it was hard for him and he had not yet moved away from the quarrel);
  • abstraction (the guy is among the introverts who prefer not to communicate with anyone and experience their problems alone, due to their natural temperament);
  • employment (the guy is too busy at school, work and can not answer calls);
  • disgust (in this way, the guy can show his attitude towards the girl if she behaved indecently or changed);
  • maintaining his status (if a guy ignores a girl in this case, he deliberately shows that his girlfriend is not worthy and he needs only one that will meet his parameters).

Tips for ignored girls

If you know exactly the reason for the detached behavior of your chosen one, then it remains only to decide what to do if the guy ignores. So, the girls who are ignored, first of all, need:

  • get rid of doubts and indecision, as well as inner fear (men do not like it very much);
  • stop thinking that it is better to stay with someone than to be alone (a free woman always looks more attractive than a miserable and unfree);
  • if you have a falling out, let the negative feelings cool down (it may take a lot of time, but it’s better to wait out than to flog a fever);
  • make an unobtrusive first step towards a shy guy, so that ignoring him will become a real feeling (but do not be too assertive so as not to scare him away);
  • forget the guy who left without saying a word (if the guy started to ignore you completely, no need to call and write - it's better to send all the energy to the one who appreciates it than to knock on the closed door);
  • really appreciate your guilt in the quarrel and find a way to ask for forgiveness if you are guilty (using telephone and mail if your elect does not want to talk to you);
  • leave the narcissistic boy alone with yourself if you are not suitable for him by status (as practice shows, they rarely find a worthy copy for themselves).

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